Ask First!

For the grown-up

Read the comic together. Model accepting “No, thanks” by saying, “Okay, I won’t,” and keeping your hands to yourself.

Point to touching hair, borrowing a toy and giving a hug. All three need permission. Use a pencil for pretend borrowing practice, taking turns asking and answering yes, no or not right now. Words, pointing and gestures all count.

Accept the answer without repeated asking or pleading. Your child doesn’t have to lend an object, give a hug or accept touch to complete the activity. Stop whenever they want a break.

A grown-up reads along. Try one activity at a time, and stop whenever your child needs a break. These are invitations to practise together, not tests.